hello turkey hotline

Hello, Turkey Hotline. I have a problem. I hope you can help.

I was feeling a bit sorry for myself yesterday. We have been invited to B's Uncle's for Thanksgiving. Normally this means I make the turkey and drive it across the San Gabriel Valley. This year it seems his Aunt is over all the work (possibly because her adult children aren't coming home), and so it is the local Chinese restaurant for us.

I am really not much of a traditionalist, but I do understand why traditions are important. When you take away the people who were key to your celebration, traditions like food can make the holidays more manageable - bearable even. There are times when I just wish the holidays would go away because they are a painful reminder that I don't fit into the norm any longer. My mother and sister are dead, and my father has been out of the picture for over 20 years - honestly he could be dead, I have no idea.

My Aunt and Uncle, the only family I still have contact with, invited us to join them. Unfortunately this was at the same time B was confirming we were going to his family's festivities. My Aunt and Uncle are vegetarians, so that wouldn't solve the turkey issue either.

I know it isn't really about the turkey, although three years ago I about lost at the grocery store on Thanksgiving Day because the event we went to ran out of turkey. Ironically we had missed out on the turkey because we made something for the vegetarians in the group and arrived late. We ended up up having turkey burgers around nine o'clock.

I just want to get through the day. Please send help (or a turkey).

--turkeyless in LA




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